It’s been a very long time since I contributed to my blog. I wish I could use the excuse of laziness or the excuse of losing interest. But, that’s not the case as I see and experience things every day that I wish to write about. These experiences aren’t specifically tied to bridging the martial arts, but they may be tied to martial arts as a path of life regardless of discipline. I want to share my reaction to a wonderful Ted Talk I heard from a Shaolin Monk named Master Shi Heng Yi on the five hinderences of self-mastery. Rather than summarize and analyze the entire talk, you can find it here https://youtu.be/4-079YIasck, I want to speak about two points Master Yi articulates that I am personally exploring:
1 – Non-Identify: the practice of understanding that I am not the body that feels discompfort; I am not the mind that wanders from past analysis to future worry; I am not the emotion I feel. Rather, I witness these three aspects of myself and do not identify with just one.
2 – Uniqueness: my life, and everyone else’s lives, are too unique to be copies of our past selves or another’s self.
On the first point, I recognize the concept of living with a witness mind and disconnecting from the monkey mind. Hopping from one thing to another – worrying about the past or being focused on what could happen next – rather than staying in the present moment, degrades one’s ability to be his or her true self within the moment. Living in the reptilian mind of solely surviving and acting on survival instincts stifles the individual from thriving because he or she is continually just surviving.
On the second, I am grateful that I have the ability to understand how unique my life is despite my perspective that my life is fairly common. Often, we live in an environment where things we accomplish seem to be commonplace because the domain in which we achieve such things requires these efforts. It is often said in many professional domains that executing the basics to perfection drives excellence. But, it is uncommon to even learn the basics of a particular domain, let alone perfecting those basics and consistently executing them. Most domains are worthy of being completely uncommon.
Understanding a witness mind while also observing the completeness of the present is extremely paramount to growth. Both personal and professional growth rely on the ability to disassociate from the issue to seek true solutions. This is true in cases of extreme conflict, complex problem solving, and deep emotional reactions.
Doing common things in uncommon situations, executing ordinary tasks in extraordinary situations is how heroes are created. While not everyone will rescue someone from a burning building, jump out of a plane into enemy territory, or create the cure for cancer, everyone’s efforts are unique to his or her own life. These efforts are worthy of being regarded as completely unique. There is not one individual on this planet that thinks and feels exactly like another. Realizing the uniqueness of oneself unlocks limitless potential to find purpose. Perusing a purpose in life is heroic.
Let me know your thoughts! This was a great opportunity to reflect during such uncertain times. It allowed me to disassociate from the current issues and focus on living completely and presently in the moment.
Bridging the Gap,
Jeff